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[Saturday, May 30, 2009]
Living life without Crutches part 2
You don't need someone who will think for you and drive for you and believe for you and encourage you. You can do that for yourself (Independence) God Doesn't want you to be pushed along. You can stretch out your own wings (If a person walks away from your life don’t beg them to stay) Don't TRY TO TALK People Into Working For You or loving you or coming to see you (LET THEM GO ) Your Destiny is not tied to the people who walked away When people leave you. It is going to launch you into a new perspective of your life. YOU ARE NOT GOING TO STEP BACK YOU ARE GOING TO STEP UP TO WHO YOU REALLY ARE. If people walk away it wasn't accident. If you try hard to make things work and it didn't happen. Accept it as God's Plan. Let the Thing go. God is going to open up new Doors You are going to discover new strength and talents. Or even New friends. As Pastor How and Pst Lia says "The Only Thing in Heart Of God church that will change is Change" The People who were your best friend when you first went to church they may not be your same best friends, in years to come. Accept it. Allow God to Bring you New Friends that is more appropriate for This season Of your Life. Too many times We Make the mistakes of holding on to something that God is done with a long time ago. Don’t try to talk people in stay that want to leave. If you do you are only delaying the inevitable. They are still going to go in the end. Have you ever wonder that Good Bye is a good thing? Have you heard of the Gift of Goodbye? When Someone Or Something says goodbye to you its a gift from God ( You Might be Thinking GOD GIVE ME THAT GIFT RIGHT NOW I CAN Tell You Their NAMES) It is to challenge you and push you for faith to arise in You. When People Come and tell you they're leaving accept it. Don't Talk People into staying. Don't Convince them. Example ( OH PLEASE DON'T LEAVE I'M SURE WE'LL CHANGE) Be Gracious, Thank those people, Pray over them & WALK THEM TO THE DOOR. The Sooner they go the better off for Both of Us ( No More Reason to cling to) You want people in your life that is suppose to be there. When God has them there. THEY DON'T FIND FAULT WITH EVERYTHING YOU DO. When God puts them there. You DONT HAVE TO MANIPULATE THEM TO STAY. YOU DON'T NEED YOUR LEADERS TO CONSTANTLY COME TO YOU AND MINISTER TO YOU NEED GOD TO COME TO YOU When God joins people to you. You don't have to play up to them and do everything perfect. You don't have to walk on egg shells. Trying so hard Not to offend people . Example ( Well If i don't Treat them to Lunch EVERYDAY they are going to bad mouth me ) Listen You Don't need friends like them. That not A REAL FRIEND. That is someone Trying to manipulate you. They are trying to control you to do everything they want you to do. LET THEM WALK AWAY YOU DON'T NEED THEM. TO FULFILL YOUR DESTINY. Those Kind of People if they are not talking about you now. Don’t let them fool you. It just a matter of time before they will. You can not keep people like them happy. The sooner they go the better off you will be. i tried to win people over i tried to keep them as my friend. i thought if my life wouldn't continue without them So i played up to them Let them control me. I realise one day that i can not life my life like that I don't have enough energy and my time is too valuable to try to keep somebody happy who is never going to be happy. i know no matter what i do they are just going to find some reason to complain and give me new problems to fix 1 john 2:9~10 "They went out from us because they were not a part of us" it Shows me that People Leave your life they are no longer part of your destiny and thier time is over .
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