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[Saturday, May 30, 2009]
Living life without Crutches part 2
You don't need someone who will think for you and drive for you and believe for you and encourage you. You can do that for yourself (Independence) God Doesn't want you to be pushed along. You can stretch out your own wings (If a person walks away from your life don’t beg them to stay) Don't TRY TO TALK People Into Working For You or loving you or coming to see you (LET THEM GO ) Your Destiny is not tied to the people who walked away When people leave you. It is going to launch you into a new perspective of your life. YOU ARE NOT GOING TO STEP BACK YOU ARE GOING TO STEP UP TO WHO YOU REALLY ARE. If people walk away it wasn't accident. If you try hard to make things work and it didn't happen. Accept it as God's Plan. Let the Thing go. God is going to open up new Doors You are going to discover new strength and talents. Or even New friends. As Pastor How and Pst Lia says "The Only Thing in Heart Of God church that will change is Change" The People who were your best friend when you first went to church they may not be your same best friends, in years to come. Accept it. Allow God to Bring you New Friends that is more appropriate for This season Of your Life. Too many times We Make the mistakes of holding on to something that God is done with a long time ago. Don’t try to talk people in stay that want to leave. If you do you are only delaying the inevitable. They are still going to go in the end. Have you ever wonder that Good Bye is a good thing? Have you heard of the Gift of Goodbye? When Someone Or Something says goodbye to you its a gift from God ( You Might be Thinking GOD GIVE ME THAT GIFT RIGHT NOW I CAN Tell You Their NAMES) It is to challenge you and push you for faith to arise in You. When People Come and tell you they're leaving accept it. Don't Talk People into staying. Don't Convince them. Example ( OH PLEASE DON'T LEAVE I'M SURE WE'LL CHANGE) Be Gracious, Thank those people, Pray over them & WALK THEM TO THE DOOR. The Sooner they go the better off for Both of Us ( No More Reason to cling to) You want people in your life that is suppose to be there. When God has them there. THEY DON'T FIND FAULT WITH EVERYTHING YOU DO. When God puts them there. You DONT HAVE TO MANIPULATE THEM TO STAY. YOU DON'T NEED YOUR LEADERS TO CONSTANTLY COME TO YOU AND MINISTER TO YOU NEED GOD TO COME TO YOU When God joins people to you. You don't have to play up to them and do everything perfect. You don't have to walk on egg shells. Trying so hard Not to offend people . Example ( Well If i don't Treat them to Lunch EVERYDAY they are going to bad mouth me ) Listen You Don't need friends like them. That not A REAL FRIEND. That is someone Trying to manipulate you. They are trying to control you to do everything they want you to do. LET THEM WALK AWAY YOU DON'T NEED THEM. TO FULFILL YOUR DESTINY. Those Kind of People if they are not talking about you now. Don’t let them fool you. It just a matter of time before they will. You can not keep people like them happy. The sooner they go the better off you will be. i tried to win people over i tried to keep them as my friend. i thought if my life wouldn't continue without them So i played up to them Let them control me. I realise one day that i can not life my life like that I don't have enough energy and my time is too valuable to try to keep somebody happy who is never going to be happy. i know no matter what i do they are just going to find some reason to complain and give me new problems to fix 1 john 2:9~10 "They went out from us because they were not a part of us" it Shows me that People Leave your life they are no longer part of your destiny and thier time is over .
[Friday, May 29, 2009]
Father i know Greater Love Greater Compassion Flow it Through me †~!*~ ~*!~† ~!*~ ~*!~
[Thursday, May 28, 2009]
Living life without Crutches
A crutch is something or someone we rely on Its suppose to be temporary its just there until we healed up or they have done what they needed to do. Crutches are good for a time/ season but when the season is over they will be hindering us Its not suppose to be permanent it’s for a season. Not everyone was not mean to be in our life’s forever (Your spouse your children might be there for a longer period of time) Too often we get too comfortable and stay where we are. We don’t like change we don’t like the uncertainty that comes. We have big enough to recognize when somebody’s part in our life is over. It doesn’t mean they are not good people. Doesn’t mean we can’t be friends, love and respect them, but we have to accept the fact that things are changing. When a person serve his purpose in your life if we attach ourselves to them and not willing to let them go it’s going to keep us from the new things God has in plan for us Don’t be surprise that they’ll be there forever just as God supernaturally bring someone into our life He will supernaturally bring people out of our life’s If God allowed them to always be there you wouldn’t become everything he created you to be If we don’t stay open we will try to hold on to someone who is not suppose to be there We’ll think why are they trying to leave I though they were my friends. (Maybe God is moving them away because they are limiting your growth?) Could it be God is saying its time to go the next level? You don’t need to be on crutches anymore they have fur filed their purpose God has equipped you with the skills its time to stretch out your wings. Sometimes the people around you are there for the season to help you and bring you to the gate of the next level. You have to enter in the gate on your own. There is no reason why you can not walk that door on your own Yup Keep Growing †~!*~ ~*!~† ~!*~ ~*!~
[Wednesday, May 27, 2009]
MY 60 Day Goal To be more Secure and More Forgiving †~!*~ ~*!~† ~!*~ ~*!~
[Monday, May 18, 2009]
Caution if you are inscure don't read
Was Talking to my good friend From CHC haha she told me this some pple jus have the charisma to become a leader but whether or not they have the substance time will tell cos God will search our heart What an uplifter !!!
[Saturday, May 16, 2009]
Others ?
Others? Sometimes we put labels on people to warn ourselves of the type of people we may be facing. Labels like not doing well, too immature, they are emotional, too stupid, too proud, too insecure and lots more. People Will be people. Which means that they will be imperfect. Stop all your bullshit about letting them straighten up before we can trust them. No shake that off no man will ever be perfect. We live in a world where parents are not perfect where children are not perfect. Lies from Televisions and advertisements are painting a picture that you can be whole and happy with the “ If only“, slogans. The Trap of “If Only” Tends to pull us away from what we really have it paint us a picture of what we lack rather then what we have. Causing us to be unhappy at the slightest item missing in our life. Change your perspective of people. It’s not worth the energy trying to straighten everyone you meet. By the time you reach to the people who, you are really suppose to help you will be too tired to even want to bother about that person. Take time to listen to people, People are not pure evil they are just people. All in need of love and acceptance. Let us give them the time to listen to them, it will make the feel loved and valued †~!*~ ~*!~† ~!*~ ~*!~†~!*~ ~*!~† ~!*~ ~*!~
Love to Cover ?
Does Life need to be Perfect before we can enjoy it? Do people need to be perfect before they can Do anything for God ? Do they need to be perfect to become world changers ? Are not humans all fallen and all imperfect? Why then is there so much strife? Why are people at each other throats? Where is the Love, Where is that Love you proclaim and yet push down to the ground? What are you afraid of? Trusting and giving your time to People? People will be people they will fail us at some point of time! When will you put down your fear and pride and learn people will be people! However there is a key to help them to nurture, see since they will fail us means trust will be broken, offence set loose, bitter to grow! Love and strength but its not only our part there is a part a void for God to fill even leaders will grow wiry. Its not how Much we can Go With out God Its How Much we can Go with God. Friends learn to see there is a benefit to you when you “Run With God”. He may come in forms you cannot dream or imagine. Keep Beliving Keep in Faith †~!*~ ~*!~† ~!*~ ~*!~†~!*~ ~*!~† ~!*~ ~*!~
[Monday, May 11, 2009]
A coin its such a small item when you put in front of you with your arms stretch forward it blends into the enviroment but change the perspective a bit and put it close to your eyes and it become a whole new world.... What just change ?> The size of the coin ? Nope it was the Angle of it Being looked at ..... Problems are like coins .... When we take a step back and see it.... its like such an easy thing to conquer .... But when we get uptight about it becomes HUGE ..... What just happen We let the problem cloud our mind out with its size that we perceive it to be ..... Stop the negativity and re look at the coin..... Its still the same size yesterday today and forever don't get defeated by the looks of it Engage it and you will soon see its not so bad.....
A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty. Wow found this awesome Quote from Winston Churchill It means we can chose .... We are given choices in life its whether we will take and run with it or it will take us and run over us. Attack Life, Engage Run with a Passion to be awesome testimonies for Christ Not be Be Christians but Followers of Christ †~!*~ ~*!~† ~!*~ ~*!~
[Wednesday, May 06, 2009]
Though He Slay Me Yet i will trust Him †~!*~ ~*!~† ~!*~ ~*!~
What do i do now God Justice where is it have you gone to sleep or is it not the right time Give me the knowledge of when it will come to pass †~!*~ ~*!~† ~!*~ ~*!~
[Tuesday, May 05, 2009]
You Reign You Reign With power and justice divine God I make a Stand what ever big amount of money i spend it will be used to build Your Kingdom
The wake up call
Looking back at the past and seeing how my leaders have sown into my life it really seem foolish to drop everything and back away from all thier efforts sometime we take forgranted what seem to be very important to us in the first place
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